A list of all the BDSM possibilities for a session with Mistress Violet Mays



A list of all the BDSM possibilities for a session with Mistress Violet Mays



massage, spanking, biting, punching, kicking, tickling, flogging, leather straps, wooden paddles, whips, nipple play, nipple clamps, weights


Japanese rope bondage and suspension (shibari), human furniture, abandonment, mummification, physical compression and encasement, cages, chastity and key holding, leather restraints, padlocks, vac bed (NEW!)

Bend Over Boyfriend  

anal stimulation, prostate massage, strap-on (for newbies and advanced), fisting and footing, gang bangs 

Doctor, Doctor 

medical role play, examinations, orifice exploration, depilation, light needle play and extreme needle play, blood play, golden showers, sounding, leech therapy, saline infusions, catheters 

Beauty and Shame 

feminization, sissification, sissy play dates, gender bending, forced-bi, exercise scenes, forced eating, erotic humiliation, chastity 

Natural Born Fetishist 

latex, foot + leg fetish, heel worship, panty fetish, object worship, fur, sweaty gym clothes and scent play (NEW!)

Games of Life

puppy play, pony play, wrestling, role play, consensual non-consent (taboo scenes are welcomed)


hot wax, fire play, dirty talking, tease and denial, orgasm control, edging, CBT, caning, violet wand, ErosTek (multiple electrodes available), milking machine (NEW!)


shopping trips, purse-holding, lunch dates, pay pigs, chauffeur services, understated public D/s


All scenes and activities are pre-negotiated. Consent and boundaries are respected, and I use the safe word RED. 

NO sexual services are offered; no touching, kissing, face sitting or ‘Goddess worship’. 

Note that in public I present as a delicate and captivating beauty - all outings are discreet to protect our mutual privacy.

I am very happy to arrange female and/or male escorts to participate in your session (+ $300/hr upwards)

I welcome clients of any race, age and ethnicity.  


Rates / Gifts

“I imagine that yes is the only living thing.”
— e.e. cummings

Learn about more BDSM packages offered by Mistress Violet Mays


Learn about more BDSM packages offered by Mistress Violet Mays


Domme Dynamo: 2 Dominatrixes


I like to play with hot, kinky Femmes. Feel free to request a special Queen or ask me about my kinky friends. My most beloved request is an experimental, boundary-pushing medical session with Mistress Isobel.


Session with my Sub Girl

$1000 for 2hrs

Do you enjoy a more "BDSM in the bedroom" experience? Spend the first hour in submission to Me, and the second hour playing with my submissive toy and kinky escort, Asha Singh, under my direction. 


Social time


A cultural event, dinner following a spectacular session, a coffee date to get to know me better. Note that I dress discreetly and social events do not include play.




Looking to learn more about BDSM? Do you like pain but your inexperienced partner isn’t quite hitting the mark? Are you an escort looking to expand your kink offerings? I offer in-studio guidance to couples and sex workers and clients and lovers. Note that this is not a ‘scene’.


The Sensate Room (dungeon rental)

$150/4 hours; $200/overnight

Looking to rent space for a night of pain + pleasure? Want to bring your partner to an illicit lair to explore the darker side of sex? Need a daytime hour to scratch that itch? Looking for an unusual site for a photography shoot? ID and $200 security deposit are required.


Rates / Sessions 


The more the soul knows, the more she loves, and loving much, she tastes much.
— W. H. Murray