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A list of all the BDSM possibilities for a session with Mistress Violet Mays

I want to unravel you slowly


A list of all the BDSM possibilities for a session with Mistress Violet Mays

I want to unravel you slowly


massage, spanking, biting, punching, kicking, tickling, flogging, leather straps, feathers, wooden paddles, whips, nipple play, nipple clamps, weights, tawse, hair brush, riding crops, fur pelts


Japanese rope bondage (shibari), human furniture, abandonment, mummification, physical compression and encasement, cages, chastity and key holding, leather restraints, padlocks, vac bed, leather body bags, extreme hoods, latex body bags, breath play

Bend Over Boyfriend  

deep throat training, anal stimulation, prostate massage, strap-on (for newbies and advanced), fisting and footing, gang bangs 

Doctor, Doctor 

medical role play, examinations, orifice exploration, gender miss assignment, shaving, pumps, light needle play and extreme needle play, golden showers, sounding, estim, leech therapy, catheters, saline infusions, and more...

Beauty and Shame 

feminization, sissification, sissy play dates, gender bending, forced-bi, exercise scenes, forced eating, erotic humiliation, chastity 

Natural Born Fetishist 

latex, leather, fur, foot + leg fetish, heel worship, panty fetish, red lipstick, object worship, sweaty gym clothes and scent play

Games of Life

puppy play, pony play, role play, incest role play, consensual non-consent


hot wax, fire play, dirty talking, tease and denial, orgasm control, edging, CBT, caning, violet wand, ErosTek (multiple electrodes available), milking machine

The Order of Things

D/s, service, leather care, boot blacking, errand boys, supplication, cleaning maids, food preparation and service, tea ceremonies


shopping trips, purse-holding, lunch dates, pay pigs, chauffeur services, understated public D/s


All scenes and activities are pre-negotiated. Consent and boundaries are respected, and I use the safe word RED. 

Note that in public I present as a delicate and captivating beauty - all outings are discreet to protect our mutual privacy.

I welcome clients of any race, age and ethnicity.  

My Limits:

  • Any kind of sexual service, including kissing, face sitting / ‘Goddess worship’, touching without permission, or requests for nudity

  • 24/7 or slave training

  • Race play

  • Infantilism / ABDL

  • Blackmail

  • Wrestling and scissor holds


I imagine that yes is the only living thing.
— e.e. cummings

Learn about more BDSM packages offered by Mistress Violet Mays

More is more

Learn about more BDSM packages offered by Mistress Violet Mays

More is more

Dinner Dates $1200 4-6hrs

A chance to play in private before going out to dine with a Dominant that you’re enamored with. It doesn’t hurt that I really know my way around Toronto’s restaurant scene and cocktail bars.

Double Dominatrix: $600/hr 

I do like to play with hot & perverted Femmes. Request your favourite Domme or take a look at my twitter feed to see who my top kinky friends are.


Sessions with an Escort: My rate + Her rate

I love the raw eroticism that emerges when I get to play with a submissive gentleman and one of my flirty escort colleagues. I love to lead, my friends love to be naughty, and you'll love it all. Please check the escort’s website for her rates and plan accordingly.

Bull time: My rate + $250

Feeling bi-curious, shamelessly slutty, or in need of some humiliation in the form of a real live cock shoved down your throat? Yes please. That’s why I have a couple of handsome, fit boys on hand ready to do my bidding.

Gender Miss Assignment Clinic: $1000

An original mind fuck.

Kidnapping: starting at $2500

Not for the faint of heart (or thin wallet) these sessions take precision in planning, staging and execution. They are multi-player, multi-hour sensory overload experiences designed to push you to the edge, and dangle you there.

Education: $100/hr

Looking to learn more about BDSM? Do you love pain but your inexperienced partner isn’t quite hitting the mark? Are you an escort looking to expand your kink offerings? I offer in-studio guidance to couples and sex workers and clients and lovers. Note that this is not a ‘scene’.


The more the soul knows, the more she loves, and loving much, she tastes much.
— W. H. Murray 

My Lair

True worship is in the Here and Now

My Lair

True worship is in the Here and Now

I prowl in a 1500 sq ft loft spread out across two floors of private playspace. Upon arriving you will be immediately taken aback by the beauty of my space. Natural light, hardwood floors, high ceilings, two separate lofts and leafy green plants will make you instantly realize that you’ve gained access to a very special place.

My Lair is a consciously crafted place of worship.


  • St. Andrews cross, spanking bench, puppy cage, two suspension points, sling, suspension straitjacket

Medical Clinic

  • Vintage medical table, massage table, medical strait jacket, ErosTek and violet wand, medical bondage belts and medical hoods, milking machine

Sissy Boudoir

  • all the babydolls, stockings, wigs and panties a sissy desires!

Sensory Deprivation Chamber

  • full cage, leather hoods, leather bondage belts, leather body bag, latex body bag, neoprene body bag


  • King size bed with bondage restraints and mirrored ceiling, vac bed, suspension hooks, an unnervingly large collection of dildos and butt plugs

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